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Respite Care

Caring for a loved one with IDD is a labor of love, and sometimes caregivers need rest too. Our respite services provide trusted, short-term care while ensuring individuals stay safe, engaged, and active in their routines. Available by the hour in your home, we make it possible for families to take a break while knowing their loved one is in good hands.

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Respite in DC’s waivers

Respite is a service of DC’s two waivers for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities: the IDD Waiver and the Individual and Family Supports (IFS) Waiver. Here is what a family or Service Coordinator needs to know.

What respite is

DC’s approved waivers describe respite as relief for the family member or primary caregiver who looks after the person at home. It can be planned, such as a vacation or other scheduled time away, or used in an emergency.

It is not a pause in the person’s life. The waivers require that they keep doing the community activities in their Individual Support Plan (ISP) during respite, including school or other activities, with transportation included, so their routine is not interrupted.

Who it is for, and who it is not for

Respite is for:

  • Adults enrolled in the IDD Waiver or the IFS Waiver. The minimum age for both is 18.
  • People who live in their own home or their family’s home.

Respite is not for:

  • People who live in an intermediate care facility (ICF).
  • People receiving Supported Living, Host Home or Residential Habilitation through the IDD Waiver. A Host Home provider must provide or arrange 14 days of Host Home Respite a year, so the waiver does not pay for respite separately.

How much is allowed

  • Up to 720 hours or 30 days per person each calendar year. The limit is the same in both waivers.
  • Only what the person’s ISP and Plan of Care authorize. The 720 hours are a ceiling, not an automatic amount.
  • More than 720 hours needs DDS approval. The provider sends DDS a written justification describing a temporary emergency and why no other support is available, with a revised ISP.
  • On the IFS Waiver, respite also counts toward the waiver’s overall limit of $75,000 per person per ISP year.

How to ask for it

  • Talk to your DDA Service Coordinator. The waivers make the Service Coordinator responsible for telling you about every waiver service and offering a choice of services and providers during planning.
  • Ask for respite to be written into the ISP. Respite is approved through the ISP and Plan of Care, so say when you need breaks and how many hours you need over the year.
  • Choose your provider. The choice of agency is yours.
  • Ask again when things change. The person’s needs assessment is updated at least once a year and whenever their support needs change significantly.

What Mercyland offers

Mercyland is a DDS-certified provider in Northeast Washington, DC. Respite is one of the services we offer in person, alongside In-Home Support and Companion Services, for people whose ISP includes it. Whether it fits depends on your waiver, your ISP and our staffing, so call us to talk it through.

DC requires every respite worker to be at least 18, pass a criminal background check, hold CPR and First Aid certification and complete DDS training, and the person receiving support must find each worker acceptable.

Source: DC’s approved IDD Waiver (effective August 1, 2026) and IFS Waiver (effective September 1, 2026), linked under “The DDS definition”. Waiver rules change, so confirm any detail with your Service Coordinator or DDS.

Common questions about respite

Is respite only for emergencies?

No. DC’s waivers describe respite for planned time away, such as a vacation, and for emergencies.

Can someone in Supported Living or a Host Home get respite?

Not as a separate service. Respite is only for people who live in their own home or a family home, and the IDD Waiver does not offer it to people receiving Supported Living, Host Home or Residential Habilitation.

Can a teenager get respite through these waivers?

No. The IDD and IFS Waivers serve adults, and the minimum age for both is 18.

Does the person keep going to school or their usual activities during respite?

They should. The waivers include community activities and transportation in respite so the person’s usual routine continues.

Who it is for

Mercyland supports people with intellectual and developmental disabilities in Washington, DC.

A person may qualify if they:

  • Have an intellectual or developmental disability
  • Need a level of support similar to what an institution would provide
  • Meet the standard Medicaid financial eligibility rules

How to get it

To get IDD services in Washington, DC, a person applies to the Department on Disability Services (DDS) by calling 202-730-1700 or walking in to schedule an intake appointment. DDS decides eligibility and assesses needs, and then the person chooses a provider. Mercyland can help at any step, starting with one call.

Already work with DDS? Tell us your DDS service coordinator’s name when you call or email, and we will take it from there with you.

How intake and referrals work Our guide to the HCBS waiver

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Eligibility, the waiver, paperwork, what happens first. Call and ask, or send a referral and we will call you.

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